How should I Feel Right Now?

I'm an unemployed college student and I hardly have any money but a little extra from student loans. My mother has me buy **** for her all the time. Not only did my boyfriend buy her a 12.00 bottle of whiskey, but I put 14.00 towards buns for the family picnic. I pay for car insurance and my Dad doesn't know about it because he wouldnt make me pay but my mom does. We bought my Dad a picture frame that was 100.00 and my brother who is in charge of human resources at a big hospital and makes big bucks only got him a friggen tshirt and card. My mom gave my boyfriend and I a 25.00 gift card to RedLobster and made my BF put it in his wallet to make sure we took it home, and she literally just asked for it back to put in my Brother's card for Father's Day. We pay for so much, every time we come visit we buy something to contribue and we don't have jobs and yet my brother and his wife are coming to this picnic and they arent even bringing a small dish.How should I Feel Right Now?
I used to deal with that, the best thing to do is just tell them. I understand that you don't want to hurt any body. But if you don't then they will just keep doing it. Or you could just stop and try not to feel so guilty about it.How should I Feel Right Now?
What do you mean how should you feel, you feel whatever you want to feel i sure wouldn't be supporting my families bad habits tho. I wouldn't choose to be around people like that if I felt compelled to do things for them. However it is your life so I mean that's for you to decide ultimately. Try finding religion it may help separate you from these feelings. Just a personal opinion, hope I helped.
put your foot down, buy a gun, shoot up a few times to get their attention, and tell your whole family you dont got money and they will be so scared that they will listen to you.How should I Feel Right Now?
Pissed.
Shits bull **** , just have comunication, talk with ur dad if ur tired of that ****How should I Feel Right Now?
stop helping her

its a cycle hun
feel gud
don't be so selfish
What about all the years she spent on taking care of you? Does that not count?
You have to stand up for yourself and your rights! You are UNEMPLOYED. Explain to your mom sternly that you are unemployed and and you are A COLLEGE student in addition! Tell her you can't keep on buying her so many things because you need money for college. Don't let your mom push you around like that. She's taking advantage of you. Seems like she's picking on you. You need to have a serious talk with her. She can't make you keep paying. If she does, find friends or acquaintances who you could live with until you find a job.

This is a serious problem and if you don't take care of it now, it's not going to end up pretty. G'luck!
how you should feel and how i would feel are very different.

of course you should feel like you are the bigger people cuz in the past and now you continue to do what you can. you try to do your best to get what you feel is appropriate for the occasion, setting aside your own financial needs.

i on the other hand would feel like ****, im not going to continue to pitch in ten fold while my(your) brother pitches in nothing, or my mom. esp if everyone is taking the credit and you arent being appreciated for it.

seriously just stop pitching in so much.or find simpler,less expensive, yet sentimental gifts to show you care. but yes more than the card and tshirt lol.however i wouldnt just come out and say im not putching in this much cuz you guys expect us to pay more...this would just lead to an arguement. simply say that you have expenses and you must be responsible to keep your accounts balanced and your priorities in order.



hope ive helped

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